Wednesday 7 May 2008

On to the Marsden

Shortly after my transgression I’m transferred to The Royal Marsden Hospital’s rehabilitation ward for occupational therapy and physio. The staff are friendly, and the food is excellent. Its nice to have my own room, and I’m soon to form a lasting friendship with a chap called Colin, a patient in his twenties with a similar set of circumstances to my own, i.e. diagnosis of brain tumour, surgery, some initial mobility problems followed by radiotherapy and the onset of temozolomide oral chemotherapy, which I am still fighting for at the time. Initially, I am introduced to the delights of the wheelchair and commode, and after a number of weeks, I progress to crutches, and eventually a grandpa style walking stick. Physio sessions are laborious, and I push myself hard all the time with all manner of exercises, which eventually pay off dividends. Even Special Agent Jack Bauer helps me get feeling and movement in my left hand. Well not personally. More a case of I’m lying in bed watching episode after episode of 24 on my portable DVD player, manually exercising my fingers with my other hand, and monitoring and building upon minuscule levels of response in the tips of my fingers as I scrape the fresh cotton linen of the bed sheet under my arm for feedback. Support from my ‘big family’, read: THE MET. POLICE is strong. I have a constant stream of visitors with their own welcome brand of inimitable humour. They’re priceless, and more than a couple of nurses become besotted with my ‘rough diamond’ brothers.

10 comments:

Unknown said...

A Canadian girl named Helen Racanelli recommended this blog to me. Alas, we've all grown up and changed over the years.
I was worrying about you, but nothing made me happier than to read about that scene where you make your comments to the nurses. How else to get through those moments? Sad they just don't get that you say what you say in fun. Still to this day I miss your outrageous sense of humour.
I haven't been insulted properly in a while.
Looks like life as you said, brought so much bitter sweet..all this ..but a wife, a little girl...and much joy in that regard.

I wish you all the best. You'll recover, I know it.

Time is indeed a contstruct. I feel like many of the friendships I made in my 20's were so special, I never forget those people. The truly special ones don't come along that often,that's why I appreciate it so much more now.

I'm still the same. Just old :)

Time to write.

The bastard child of Gene Hunt said...

Marnie, I missed you old friend. Email me

Unknown said...

I don't know how. :)

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oddball8974 said...

Ivaneski. Love the Swiss Toni.Pc gone mad mate It will return to sanity some day. Dudde on roiute to the Met for visit to PPO unit sometime in next 4 weeks, call me and meet up. Odd.

oddball8974 said...

It is with heavy heart I leave this comment. To Ed Marnie all folowers of The Bastard Son of Gene Hunt AKA my friend Ivan. He passed away at 4:30 am Friday the 20th of June peacfully after a long and hard fight.

Unknown said...

Thank you, oddball for your message.
Heartbreaking.
We all loved him.

Ed said...

Bye old friend.

oddball8974 said...

His wife asked me to thank you all for your support. He was a true hero. Ive known him 37 yrs and he still made me laugh. He even talked me into writting a blog shame no bugger read it bar him!!! He is buried in his home town close to the sea with full honours after a full military type service in Richmond. He would have loved it. Any questions feel free to ask on my blog will email you.
oddball

oddballs return said...

Well old friend the years have passed and it seems I now face the same fate. I've called the little bastard in my chest Philip. I'm at the we don't know what type or where its going stage. I could use a chat right now so I may visit your grave with a couple of bottles of bud. Its a bit of a twat isn't it. You can't make this shit up.